Cuddle Parties

I was talking to a friend who is looking for L.O.V.E.

She was telling me she picks the wrong guys cause she´d rather go for Mr. Right Now, than Mr. Right. She has had several horrible experiences with Sr. Ahora, but still goes back to "that guy" every time.

I asked her WHY!! Now that you see it´s not a solution and it really only adds to the problem WHY do you keep going there?

Her response was,"Sometimes I just want to be touched". Usually she is talking about making out and I am usually saying, you just need to chill and eat some chocolate. However, this evoked a more thuoghtful response from me. Afterall it is human nature to want physical contact with another person or being. It´s the same for animals which you know if you´ve ever heard a kitten purr or seen a dog roll on it´s belly just from being touched.

The reason? A hormone called Oxytocin. It´s the hormone released that forms the unbreakable bond between mother and child during labor, the light headed feeling when you´re in love or just the warm fuzzies you get gabbing away with your friend on the phone. This hormone makes us feel good..no great..and we want more of it.

I figured what was at the foundation of my friends longing wasn´t a boyfriend as much as it was the lack of feeling that connection that between humans that we all need at a basic level.

I suggested a looking into attending a Cuddle Party! Have you heard of these? Gathering of people who are looking for a safe space to experience human touch in a non sexual way. I have heard rave reviews about these gatherings although have never attended myself. I think these parties give us a way to get that closeness we all desire between humans and give us an outlet so we don´t have to call Mr. or Ms. Right Now for anything!

This is a great way to manifest, good feelings, the "love" hormone that is good for your health and happiness and a way of taking happiness into your own hands :)

Happy Cuddles!

These Are The Days

These Are The Days- 10,000 Maniacs

These are the days.

These are days you'll remember.
Never before and never since, I promise, will the whole world be warm as this.
And as you feel it, you'll know it's true that you are blessed and lucky.
It's true that you are touched by something that will grow and bloom in you.

These are days you'll remember.
When May is rushing over you with desire to be part of the miracles you see in
every hour.
You'll know it's true that you are blessed and lucky.
It's true that you are touched by something that will grow and bloom in you.

These are days.

These are the days you might fill with laughter until you break.
These days you might feel a shaft of light make its way across your face.
And when you do you'll know how it was meant to be.
See the signs and know their meaning.
It's true, you'll know how it was meant to be.
Hear the signs and know they're speaking to you, to you.

Soul, Sequins & Fabulousness

There will be no other...Chaka Khan!

And who told you it wasn't beautiful?

Create Your Own Reality (Ignore the lies....)

Killing Me Fabulously

Lauryn Giving Us Fabulous Hair...on the bus...